Saturday, December 17, 2011

If You LOVE ME

IF YOU LOVE ME

If you love me, you will sacrifice and give me what I want no matter how uncomfortable it may be for you.

I do love you so I will not put you in competition with how much I love myself.

If you love me when I cry, you will do whatever it takes to make me stop.

I do love you so I will let you have my shoulder to cry on and realize sometimes we all need a good cry.

If you love me, you will wake up before dawn to see to it I have a warm cup of coffee to see me off.

I do love you so I will set the coffee pot to automatic so it will be ready before you leave. Then I will thank God that I get to sleep and wake up refreshed.

If you love me, you will change.

I do love you so I will be myself and allow you the opportunity to see that diversity is beautiful.

If you love me, you will pick up the phone every time I call.
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I do love you so your messages will always be priority and I will call you back when I have a chance to give you the attention you need.

If you love me, you will not go out with your friends.

I do love you so I will continue going out with my friends, so that I will immensely enjoy our time together. (We all need a break).
I you love me you will not wear that.

I do love you so I will listen to why you feel what I am wearing is inappropriate. Then I will respect you have the right to disagree and I have the right to disagree.

If you love me, you will chauffeur me everywhere I have to go, no matter how inconvenient it may be for you.

I do love you so we will make sure you always have safe transportation.

I you love me every time I throw a tantrum when things are not going my way you will give in.
I do love you so I will let you throw your tantrum. Then I will communicate with you how they negatively affect my health, creatively and emotions. However, I can assure you I will not give in. That is emotional terrorism.

If you love me, you will not question why my attitude has changed. I do love you so I will leave you alone until you wish to communicate with me.

If you love me, you will like everybody I like.
I do love you so I will always respect that you may have different taste in people than I do.
If you love me, you will never tell me I am wrong.

I do love you so I will tell you that your action is wrong for me and it is something that I might not would have done.

If you love me, you will not take offense when I use vulgar slangs to express myself.

I do love you so I will not take part in conversations when you are feeling vulgar.
If you love me you will be willing to fight each time, I tell you someone has offended me.
I do love you so I will maintain my cool, because hurting others and being arrested will only make matters worse.

If you love me, you will agree to everything I say.

I do love you so I will let YOU agree with everything you say.

If you love me, you will let me lead you in the direction I want us to go in.

I do love you so I will compromise about the direction so we end up on the same path.

If you love me, you will read my mind and know why I am feeling a certain way.

I do love you so I will not try to read you mind because I might read something wrong.

If you love me, you will start to think, respond, and live, as I would like for you to.

I do love you so I will choose to look in the mirror and see my reflection rather than some else I do not know or like.

I will always take. I will always give.

I will always be first.I will always walk by your side.

I will always be right. I will always hear both sides.

I will always throw a tantrum when I cannot have my way.I will always try to understand that you are simply an emotional terrorist and eventually decide whether I will continue to be terrorized.

I will always, have to be noticed. I will always notice you.

I will always have my own life.
I will always make room for you in my life.

I will always buy myself the best. I will always want you to have the best.

I will always judge how much you love me by how much I can control you. I will allow your actions to determine whether we will be together for a lifetime.

I love you so that is why I am writing this to you, so that you will understand that I may not leave you because I do not love you. I may leave you because you do not love ME.

Chrystal Ellis 12/16/2011
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